tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12438564.post41910943106400796..comments2024-01-07T02:38:29.685-05:00Comments on my life my words my mind: ExpressionTrinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08711876205793925101noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12438564.post-83263479744468256422012-06-05T12:35:43.012-04:002012-06-05T12:35:43.012-04:00I like that idea, 'once our personalities have...I like that idea, 'once our personalities have found a sympathetic vibration, time and space don't matter, the vibration will still be there when we see each other again'. <br /><br />You know I spent years doing infrared spectroscopy when I was a chemist? Simply put, the bonds in molecules are always vibrating. You can measure the wavelength of energy (in the Infrared region of the spectrum) and interpret what kinds of bonds are present in the molecule. Very powerful! So, that is why love this vibration analogy...it resonates with me. (Resonance is another favorite word of spectroscopists- I know, I'm a complete nerd, that is why you love me LOL.)Kyahgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04496268340516243071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12438564.post-30030816697985980342012-05-25T01:10:58.384-04:002012-05-25T01:10:58.384-04:00I love YOU, Laura. I believe there will be a next ...I love YOU, Laura. I believe there will be a next time, too. Heck - I have a passport now, and have never been to Canada!<br /><br />I'm not been good at keeping in touch with people. Facebook helps immensely, but I still procrastinate; often to the point of flaking on people. But with most folks I genuinely care about, it often ends up being a more extreme form of procrastination. Any friend I've cared enough about to reconnect with later down the line has turned out to be someone who I feel comfortable with almost immediately, even years later.<br /><br />When that happens, I want to kick myself for losing touch with someone I like and resonate with that much, but it also reassures me. I think that due to my personality type, my connections are more about the *person* and less about current events/history. An individual I vibed with once is someone I will probably always vibe with, and the rest is just stuff for us to talk about. Drifting for a bit and losing touch doesn't, for me, equate to losing the relationship. I know this isn't the case for a lot of personality types, and I've come to terms with the fact that my behavior will never be acceptable to them (and vice versa).<br /><br />I really am a hugger, so be forewarned for our future visit! It might be a case of a big hug and then a massive awkward silence from me, but I'll be there in the quiet.Trinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08711876205793925101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12438564.post-5880474703466740782012-05-24T19:11:05.464-04:002012-05-24T19:11:05.464-04:00Next time I see you (I have to believe there will ...Next time I see you (I have to believe there will be a next time) I am going to give you a great big hug. If I may be so forward to say..I love you too!<br /> <br />I was recently looking through a bunch of memorabilia from my teen years that my mom had saved for me. It struck me that I used to be much better at keeping in touch with people and letting them know I cared. Its something a person has to keep working on.<br /><br />I'm glad you still post periodically and are still here so I can drop by and cyber-visit you :-)Kyahgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04496268340516243071noreply@blogger.com